Let’s Be Silly or Whatever

When you are too busy with your creativity there is no other space for other feelings. I don’t know if you feel the same but for me being silly is everything. I don’t think that you should spend a day without doing or saying something frivolous. It may only make you laughing; at least you chuckle and what is a life without giggling?

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When your mind is so full of creativity and you just have to find your way or someone, not only yourself who believes in you …

I am sure all of us had some moments when we questioned ourselves about the next step to make in order to feel more gratified. Some times it is not even that but more deeply to actually wonder about the reason why we should even care about doing more. 

In the past I believed that as long as I had money to pay bills, buy expensive clothes and do something fun, I was ok. I remember that once a person read my handwriting and she pointed out the fact that I had a lot of potential and that I should just venture mysel more.

Over 8 years ago I changed continent and of course I had to deal with all the bureaucratic system and to find a new way of supporting myself in the new environment. I found something that is way more exciting than what I used to do. 

No matter that, I still question myself and I have been working on my inner, spiritual essence. In the last two years I have progressed deeply, but there is always a sort of dissatisfaction that pushes me to do more, makes me complain about myself, and try something new. However, with the excitement comes also the fear but most of all the big question? What the heck am I doing this when all I want is maybe just to be naked at the beach? 

Somebody says that as long we have fun doing what we are doing, we are already on the right path. Day by day we get caught in a circle of interrogative sentences that nobody can answer but us. However, those questions will only find an answer when their time comes. 

Do things not for the outcome but for the pleasure. Am I writing this for me, for you or for whatsoever? I guess I’ll find out one day. 

Questions: getting closer

1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest? My niece MIMI

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way? I want to be a famous photographer/singer/actor

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why? Not all the time. Only if it is for something professional.

4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? Gym, sun, museum, sex, dinner, sex.

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? Tonight in the car. Today when I posted a video.

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? I would retain the mind.

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? I always thought that I will burn.

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common. Love for music, certain values, love for friends.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful? My health.

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? I would love my parents to love me the way I am.

11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible. This is the story of a crazy guy who went through some hard times, but always showed that nothing is the end.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? Be able to learn other languages very easily.

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? I would love to know if my nieces and nephew will live close to me. I would desire to know if one day I could finally find peace inside me.

14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it? I dreamed about having a night full of sex without moderation.

15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life? My attempt to be myself no matter what others think about me.

16. What do you value most in a friendship? Being there in the good but most of all in the bad

17. What is your most treasured memory? Sitting on a bench and looking at the sea.

18. What is your most terrible memory? When my mom died.

19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why? I do not know, maybe. I will travel as much as possible.

20. What does friendship mean to you? Everything.

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life? They play an important role because we all want to be loved.

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.Outgoing, intelligent, talented, lovely, sweet.

23. How close and warm is your family? Not to close or warm.Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s? A little bit.

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother? I loved her.

25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … “ we had some good and bad memories. We went through storms and we survived. We supported each other and try to love each other unconditionally

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share some artistic moments”.

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know. They would need to know how important to me is to be accepted the way I am and the choices that I make without any judgement.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met. I like the fact that he risked for our relationship.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life. When I peed in my pants when I was a kid.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself? I don’t remember. I cried by myself a couple of weeks ago.

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already. The desire to surprise me

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about? Death, diseases.

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet? To my family and friends how much I truly care and love them. I already did.

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why? My laptop because it has all my pictures.

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why? My nieces and nephew because they are so young.

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen. To be honest and not be judged because of that.

Peace

When I sit there In that weird position

I wish for peace

For me, you and 

The people that I love.
I go through 

All those awkward positions

With strange names.

I copy animal positions

I aim to the sky

I ask for forgiveness

And for eternal peace.
Every day

It is a growth.

I move towards

The light.

Will my heart

Be calm?

Will my brain

Be at rest?
I surround myself

Of positive vibes

I cover myself

With pure thoughts.
What is

The meaning of life?

What gives you 

The stillness of heart?
Love is always 

The answer.

You are love

And you reflect it!

  

Those Sad Faces

  
Sleepy, sad, uncomfortable faces fill the bus and the streets in an attempt to make a living day by day.

First of all, waking up early to go through a city and towards jobs, that are not the real passions of people, is a hustle. Being away for a bunch of dollars just because you need to make a living is not such a great incitement for getting up.

Secondly, when individuals were born, their parents had different visions about their children’s futures. Certainly, a small percentage of these everyday crowds are kinda of happy about their existences. However, generally speaking and observing these faces, it is not excitement that pops up.

Last but not the least, being surrounded by a lot of people, maybe standing and unstablily risking to smash the face on the ground, is definitely not the greatest  experience of your day. To use a metaphor is like life in general where human beings try to keep a balance by recurring to many different supports (meditation, exercise, various substances, sex and more) while on the bus they lean on others or grab more or less firmly steel bars in order to keep their stability.

In conclusion, there is a sort of counterbalance in the fact that these sleepy, sad and uncomfortable faces can actually stand on their feet; they are supposedly quite healthy and would probably have occasions for laughing and enjoying during their work days.

  

Gay Pride 2015

Yesterday there was the Weho Gay Pride/Parade. People were strolling on Santa Monica Blvd with many different expectations for the day. This year it seemed quieter and with less naked people than usual. Of course there were some adventurous ones who were showing more or less their jewels, backpacks or expanded bells.

Once again people were putting themselves out with a desire/need of validation from others. Some individuals were looking for an adventure, a make out session or something more, while others were just enjoying the extensive use of alcohol and drugs while dancing or stumbling.

Moreover, people were flirting with each other, touching other people’s groins. It is well known that this society is based on sex and certainly the gay pride was an opportunity for some of these beings to be more or less experimental. 

However, at the end it all goes to a man’s need for love, attention, affection. There is a difference between love and sex, as one singer said, and not all the time we understand that we could have both of them with one person.